Saying good bye to our beloved pets brings unbearable grief and sorrow into our lives, and for many, the deep sense of loss can be quite paralyzing and debilitating. We have been given only a brief moment to enjoy the happiness, sweetness, laughs, unconditional friendship, loyalty and love that our pets bring into our lives, and we often ask ourselves during the dark times of mourning whether the brief moments of joy and companionship are worth the heartbreaking moment of having to say good bye. One should then remember our pets' wagging tails, purring sounds and eyes lit up with excitement just to say hello to us whenever we came home - and there should be no more doubt that our pets loved us and that we really mattered to them, even if it was for a very brief moment. Saying good bye will undoubtedly create deep wounds within our hearts. But with the love and support of our families and friends, time will eventually mend our broken hearts and remembering the happy moments we shared with our beloved pets will bring some comfort to us. Should you find yourself unable to cope with the death of your pet, below is a list of pet loss support websites, groups, chat rooms and hotlines across the United States. Toll free hotlines ASPCA Pet Loss Support Hotline (877) 474-3310 Grief Recovery Hotline 1-800-445-4808 (M-F 9am-5pm PST) Iams Pet Loss Support Center 1-888-332-7738 (M-F 8am-5pm) Michigan State University College of Veterinary Medicine Pet Loss Support Hotline 517-432-2696 Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday 6:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. (Eastern time) Cornell University Pet Loss Support Hotline 607-253-3932 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. Tuesday throught Thursday evenings (Eastern time) Tufts University Pet Loss Support Hotline 508-839-7966 (no hours stated on their web site; call for more information) University of Florida Pet Loss Support hotline 352-392-2235 Leave a message and someone will call you back within 24 hours weekdays; weekend calls are returned on Monday Chatrooms Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement Chat Room (www.aplb.org/chat/chat_petloss.php) Rainbow's Bridge (http://rainbowsbridge.com/Grief_Support_Center/Grief_Support_Home.htm#chat) Websites Pet Loss Support Page (www.pet-loss.net) Chance's Spot (www.chancesspot.org) Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (www.aplb.org) The Humane Society (www.humanesociety.org/animals/resources/tips/coping_with_pet_death.html) Pet Loss: Understanding Grief in Children (www.aplb.org/support/children_and_pet_loss.php) Pet Loss Resource Guide (www.dogfencediy.com/library/pet-loss-resource-guide) Useful handouts from the Ohio State University Veterinary Teaching Hospital Helping Children Cope with the Serious Illness or Death of a Companion Animal Coping with the Loss or Death of a Companion Animal Difficult Decision-Making Do Companion Animals Grieve? |
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